And while Rachel writes so beautifully on the subject, it is the subject itself which is so disturbing and mindboggling. While I can certainly understand the policephobia (there's probably a term for that) since I tend to have it, I am certain few of us are ever reminded of a major source of trans anxiety each and every time we use a public restroom.
I think her idea of maintaining a "harassment log" on her blog is one of the best ideas I've heard all year.
Go forth and read. Because life is way more complex than this: